From a Girl's Point of View




Some guys consider their ego to be more important than other peoples' thoughts or feelings, or so it seems. When with their friends and a girl is around, they need to act all cool and macho. They'll ignore the girl who's trying to talk to him, or act like he doesn't know what he's talking about. Whereas, were he alone with her or with some of her friendshe would be very charming and attentive and not at all like he is with his friends. Now, why?

One reason they might do this is because they think they need to be two different people. They need to be one person around their friends and another around girls to be able to fit in. Boys might feel the need to be accepted in both worlds and so they act the two different parts so they can't be made fun of or teased. Maybe they feel insecureand just go with the flow. But, whatever the reason may be, it causes a great deal of frustration for the ladies, sometimes causing them to take unnecessary measures.

Another reason for them to be so egotistical would be because they want to impress people, girls, friends, anybody they can really. They need to look tough as if nothing could ever get in their way. Power is a big guy thing. Guys need to be stronger, better, faster then anybody else. it doesn't impress or attract girls. We get offended and annoyed when boys act macho and like their higher in status than us.

Boys really are sensitive and need to be loved. They are needy whether they want to be or not whether they think so or not. They need to be treated with care because their egos are so tender and fragile. We, ladies, need to understand the weaker side of guys and always remember what they are trying to protect when they offend you: their EGO.